When Should Kids Get a Mobile Phone?

The timing for giving a child a mobile phone is not just about age; it is equally about the family’s communication needs.

First and foremost, it’s important to remember that there are different options available:

• GPS Watch: Allows for basic calls and tracking but has limited features.
• Basic mobile phone (Non-Smartphone): Suitable for calling and texting only, with limited app access.
• Smartphone with Parental Controls: Provides full internet access but can be managed through parental settings.

Many parents begin with a GPS watch or simple phone for basic contact, while smartphones offer more but require active oversight due to apps, games, and internet access.

Key Statistics

• By age nine, 94 % of children own a mobile, often because parents need to stay in contact.
• Children often value phones for entertainment and connecting with friends.

Device Pros and Cons

• GPS Watch: Simple for family contact and tracking, but limited as kids grow.
• Basic Mobile: Affordable and durable, good for basic communication.
• Smartphone: Offers broad functionality but can lead to pressure around apps and screen time.

Advice for parents

Kjellaug works at «Barnevakten», and she emphasizes the importance of thoughtful planning: «Many parents wonder about the right age for a first phone, but there is no one-size-fits-all answer. It depends on family contact needs, children’s connections with friends, and even the social pressure that comes with owning a phone.»

She suggests that parents take responsibility by guiding children towards mindful and safe mobile use. This includes selecting the right device, reviewing parental control options, and understanding settings that limit access to certain features.

Practical Tips for Parents

• Select an Affordable Device: Kids do not need the latest model.
• Set Purchase Restrictions: Prevent unwanted app and in-game purchases.
• Teach Online Safety: Discuss privacy, respect in communication, and critical thinking about what to share – for example that it is not allowed to share pictures of others without their permission. For children under 15, you also need the parent’s permission.
• Screen Time Rules: Establish when and where phones can be used, with breaks for meals and before bedtime.
• Be a Role Model: Show balanced screen use and thoughtful sharing online.

Consider creating a mobile agreement with your child to set clear expectations for responsible usage.